I found this article on conflict resolution and kids and really liked it. Â I think the author highlights a problem many families face, which is they do not help their children understand that conflict is natural and help them to find positive ways to deal with the conflict. Â I know that when I was growing up, I rarely observed my parents resolving conflict, it was hidden from me. Â As an adult I had to come to understand that if someone raises their voice, it is not always a bad thing. Â What do you think? Â What did you learn as a child?